http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/The relationships of a 20-something guy.en-UKMokoFeed10http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/http://data5.blog.de/design/preview/10/d67b8437b4b23336e74bc6bcea4ee3_160x200.jpghttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/20/blowjob-coming-from-becky-any-minute-now-7423086/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-20:/2009/11/20/blowjob-coming-from-becky-any-minute-now-7423086/Fri, 20 Nov 2009 22:58:00 +0100 <p>Becky is currently at a gig, but she said she's going to come over after it but only for about an hour because she is working early tomorrow. She said she's not going to have time to mess around, so when she turns up we're not going to speak, we're just going straight upstairs. I told her to prove that she likes giving blowjobs now (she enver used to) and she said she will. Looking forward to it, athough she might not be any good.</p> <p>It'd be awesome if it happened like that. Perhaps after a bit of a blowjob I'll have sex with her, finish up on her boobs, then let her clean her self up and get out without speaking to her. I wonder why people seem to be into that.</p> <p>I hope it turns out like I imagine in my head. I'll let you know. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/20/blowjob-coming-from-becky-any-minute-now-7423086/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>sexpromises-promisesblowjobhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/20/blowjob-coming-from-becky-any-minute-now-7423086/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/19/allie-7414018/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-19:/2009/11/19/allie-7414018/Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:46:34 +0100 <p>Six and a half years ago I was getting ready to move to California (yes, this is a weird way to start a story). My friend Dan told me that a girl he'd spoken to online for a while had written me a poem because I was leaving. That was quite weird by itself because I think I had spoken to her on the phone once, and that was it. Her name is Allie.</p> <p>Allie lives about 20 miles from me. We have never met each other, and she is engaged to a man she has been seeing for 2 years. He proposed to her on Oblivion at Alton Towers. He lives about 300 miles away from both of us at the moment.</p> <p>While I was in California I spoke to her a bit via MSN, but I was deeply in love with my girlfriend over there the whole time. Allie would often make our conversations quite explicit, and I must admit now that I really enjoyed that fact.</p> <p>Anyway, we stopped speaking to each other in 2004 because we just stopped having anything to say, etc. The other month I saw her lsited as one of Dan's Facebook friends, so I thought I'd add her and say hello. We had a brief conversation, and then that was that over with.</p> <p>Yesterday I was working from home, and I had Facebook open. She posted a status update saying "Allie has taken the day off today, just because she can." BecauseI was off too I just clicked "Like" underneath it and carried on with my day for a minute. Then I got a notification saying she'd replied, then another saying she'd commented on one of my status updates. Well, I replied, and she replied over and over again for a while. I decided to say hi on Facebook Chat instead of the constant Facebook comment back-and-forth.</p> <p>After a minute or two of talking on Facebook Chat I suggested MSN instead because Facebook Chat's not ideal. So I added her on MSN and we started to chat on there for a while. Before long she was talking about finding her webcam. When she found it she invited me to watch her chat to me on MSN. I accepted and watched for a while as we spoke. Then she suggested that I show her my webcam, so I did.</p> <p>We chatted about al lsorts of things until I remembered that a few weeks ago I'd stumbled on some old MSN chat logs from when we used to speak in 2003-2004. I found them again and started quoting bits and pieces to her. There was some pretty obvious flirting going on in the old chat logs, and some very sexual things said between the both of us. It was weird because neither of us particularly remembered our conversations being so dirty.</p> <p>At some point the conversation got disconnected, so I started it up again, but I clicked video call, instead of just webcam by mistake. Unfortunately she could hear me, but I couldn't hear her. After that she suggested using Skype instead. When we got on Skype everything was working.</p> <p>We started out just chatting about random stuff and before we knew it w'd been talking for 3 hours. Allie had to go to make some food and a few other bits and pieces, but said we'd talk later.</p> <p>I wasn't expecting to talk for as long the second time we started, but we ended up talking about all sorts of things. A lot of it was to do with sex, which is a personal favourite topic of mine, and apparently hers. We were talking for 7 and a half hours the second time! We planned all sorts of ridiculous things that I'm not sure if she was joking about or not. She's going on holiday in December and she suggested that I should pick up the spare ticket because someone cancelled. I said I was going away in just over a week and she should take one of those spare tickets. She did seem interested, but perhaps was unsure of how serious I was. It's weird how people can umm and ahh for so long and never end up making a decision, but oh well.</p> <p>I can't believe we spent 10 and a half hours talking to each other. It was really a lot of fun, and I hope to spend some time talking to her later on.</p> <p>One thing I did find a bit unusual is that during that entire time she only spoke to her fiancé in one text message. I find that quite unusual...</p> <p>Anyway, I don't think anything will happen with Allie, but it was such an awesome day that I just felt like writing it down.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/19/allie-7414018/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/19/allie-7414018/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/19/becky-against-the-door-7413326/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-19:/2009/11/19/becky-against-the-door-7413326/Thu, 19 Nov 2009 13:55:58 +0100 <p>Becky came over again the night before last after she'd finished at a pub quiz. We watched a bit of TV on the sofa together and nothing really happened that whole time. At one point we kissed a little bit, but then we stopped doing anything for about an hour.</p> <p>After a while it was decided we should both get some sleep, so Becky gathered her things and went to the front door. As she was turning the key to unlock the door, I spun her around and pushed her against the door and started to kiss her. She was surprised at first, but quickly started kissing me back.</p> <p>I started to take off  all clothes south of her waist and then took my own off too. Still against the door I carried on kissing her and crouched down (I'm nearly a foot taller than she is) and tried to find the right angle. With a bit of help I managed to get everything in order and started to fuck her against the front door.</p> <p>It felt pretty strange to be ahving sex right there, and I did have an urge to open the front door and carry on, but I didn't.</p> <p>After a couple of minutes Becky couldn't stand on her tip-toes any more, so without stopping kissing we moved back to the sofa and carried on having sex there, with me on top, of course.</p> <p>A few minutes in I was completely covered in sweat, and my back was well and truly covered in scratches. Several times I got quite close to finishing, but stopped in time so I could carry on.</p> <p>We stayed in pretty much the same position the whole time we were having sex. I got warned against getting any cum on her face, which didn't matter in the end because I couldn't seem to get close again after stopping myself so many times. I tried everything I could think of. No matter how fast and hard I fucked her I couldn't get close to finishing. I can normally control it quite well, but I just couldn't seem to reach the point of no return, so after a hell of a lot of trying I told her I'd have to stop. I was literally dripping with sweat and I was extremely out of breath from the massive effort.</p> <p>The whole thing would probably be a lot easier and nicer if she made any effort during sex, but she doesn't.</p> <p>I'm beginning to think that I'll probably get her to give me a blowjob, which she never used to do 3 years ago, make sure I cum on her face because she says she doesn't want it, and then not bother seeing her any more.</p> <p>That sounds really horrible, but I'm not overly bothered. She's too lazy during sex for my liking, so I might as well do the things I want to do since I already do everything she wants.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/19/becky-against-the-door-7413326/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>lazy-fucksexkissscratchhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/19/becky-against-the-door-7413326/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/17/becky-7398016/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-17:/2009/11/17/becky-7398016/Tue, 17 Nov 2009 11:42:49 +0100 <p>I went out to a gig on Sunday night with a friend. After the gig I went back to my friend's house because I had too much to drink, and his house was considerably closer than mine. Before I went to sleep on the sofa I played around with Facebook on my phone. I added a girl that I met in the bar that night, and then I also added a girl I used to see 3 years ago, but haven't spoken to since then.</p> <p>This girl from 3 years ago is called Becky. The circumstances of our original get-together are a bit stupid, and bad. My friend really liked her, I had a girlfriend, she had a boyfriend. The day before my girlfriend was first coming to stay over Becky came over and we had sex. The next day I met up with my girlfriend and we went away together for the weekend. Becky broke up with her boyfriend right away. Before too long my girlfriend and I broke up and Becky and I started to see more of each other. My friend found out, obviously, and he was not very pleased about the situation.</p> <p>Anyway, that was the beginning of a summer of high drama among my friends and I. Things have changed quite a lot since then, but Becky and I didn't speak at all. There was no need to. We ended on quite bad terms, and neither of us wanted much to do with each other.</p> <p>Anyway, one huge digression aside, I added Becky on Facebook, and she confirmed it almost straight away. She sent me a message a couple of minutes later, and i replied. We did the whole "how have you been?" thing for a while, then my battery was running out, so I told her, and went to sleep.</p> <p>At work after a few hours of sleep we carried on where we left off with the messages. Eventually the conversation reached a point where it was agreed that she would come over and watch a film at my house when I got home from work, but nothing would happen outside catching up, and watching a film.</p> <p>While we were watching the first film I said something mildly sarcastic and she took that as an opportunity to hit me with a cushion. I hit her back with another cushion, and then we carried on watching the film. This happened a few times while we were watching the second film, but she also started to lean over and poke me, or tickle me or whatever, and  Iwas doing the same back. Basically we were just making excuses to touch each other.</p> <p>During the third film she decided to lie down on the sofa. At some point she decided to move so her face was on the other end of the sofa to me, so I took a cushion, put it on her hip, and lay down on it. We carried on poking each other a bit, and then things progressed to thumb wrestling, which is basically just an excuse for holding hands. Then we didn't bother making excuses, and just held hands.</p> <p>Becky asked if I had enough space, and then she moved slightly aside so I could move a bit further up towards her face. I stayed like that for a few minutes, while we were still holding hands. Then I took my hands and started to trace lines along her arms, her back, her ear...</p> <p>After a couple of minutes of that I decided to lean in and kiss her. She kissed me back, and then there was some sort of release of a lot of tension and we both started to kiss each other with a lot more urgency. It was very much like something you see in the movies.</p> <p>After a minute or two of that we were basically writhing around with each other on the sofa. I pointed out that there wasn't very much room, and she agreed. I asked if we should move to somewhere with a bit more space, and she said yes, so we went upstairs to my bedroom.</p> <p>As soon as we had stopped in the middle of the bedroom we started kissing again. I took off her top and we kissed some more before we moved onto the bed. We stopped kissing briefly while we finished getting undressed and Becky commented on how weird it was to be doing the same thing as 3 years ago. She said it wasn't weird in a bad way, but I agreed it was a weird situation to be in again.</p> <p>Since the last time I saw her she'd had a breast reduction. It was fairly hard to spot the difference over 3 years, but they still seemed pretty damn big to me. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>I moved Becky further onto the bed while we were still kissing, and then moved around so I was on top of her. I pushed slightly inside her and she gasped, which is a lovely thing to hear! I slowly pushed in a bit further, pulled out, pushed in a bit further a few times and then pushed all the rest of the way in at once.</p> <p>Straight away she was moaning and started to dig her nails into my back. We were still kissing as much as possible while still managing to breathe every now and then.</p> <p>For the entire time we didn't change position more than a little bit. I was on top, and I was in control of what was happening, and she liked it like that. A few times she was moaning really loud, or letting out a bit of a scream, which I'm sure the neighbours appreciated at about 2am.</p> <p>After around 45 minutes I was basically far too hot and out of breath. I had to stop for a minute to breathe, and get a drink. By this point Becky had come a few times, so I didn't feel bad for stopping. When I got back into the bedroom from getting a drink it hit me that it was almost 3am, and I'd only had 4 or 5 hours of sleep the night before. I was really tired, hot, and breathing heavily still.</p> <p>Becky suggested that we stop, and I thought about whether to continue or not. In the end I decided to be sensible, which I sort of regret, but also makes me quite glad. I didn't get a chance to finish what I'd started, and she certainly didn't offer to help out, because she's an incredibly selfish person to sleep with, but I was glad just to let her out of the house so I could get 4 hours of sleep before getting up for work.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/17/becky-7398016/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>missionarykisssexbreastsscratchticklingforeplayhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/17/becky-7398016/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/13/going-in-circles-7367845/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-13:/2009/11/13/going-in-circles-7367845/Fri, 13 Nov 2009 17:55:15 +0100 <p>I've told Valerie that we won't be doing anything together any more after the first time. She's not someone I want to spend my time with. She always used to make it hard work, and I don't want that any more. Now that I've done that I'm left with only a few chances with other girls right now.</p> <p>Linzi didn't speak to me for a couple of weeks until this lunch time, when she randomly started texting every minute to see if I wanted to go see her tonight with our mutual friends. Unfortunately we're at a party, so we can't go. She then invited me out on another night, which I would go to, but our friends can't make it, so it might not be such a great idea.</p> <p>Sally has been planning to come and see me for a week or so now, but she's just received some bad news about her mum that emans she might not be able to make it after all. She still wants to, if only to get away from the situation she's in at the moment for a few days. We've spoken on the phone a couple of times, and there's been a hell of a lot of talk about what we'd do to each other when we met, which is pretty awesome. I'll go into more detail about that when I have more time.</p> <p>I've found myself thinking of Lisa quite a lot recently. I really enjoyed the time I spent with her, and I think I'd like it even more now, but she has a serious relationship, and I don't want to be the one to break something like that up. That doesn't stop me from wishing they would just break up though. Ugh. It's so frustrating because I like talking to her, but I always end up saying these ridiculous things to her about spending time together and blah blah blah.</p> <p>So yeah, I basically haven't gone anywhere since I became single, other than that one mistaken misadventure with Valerie, and it kind of sucks. I was hoping I'd at least have someone to spend some time with in a non-relationship, but as it stands I am basically by myself.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/13/going-in-circles-7367845/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>relationshipshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/13/going-in-circles-7367845/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/06/the-drought-has-ended-7319702/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-06:/2009/11/06/the-drought-has-ended-7319702/Fri, 06 Nov 2009 15:26:31 +0100 <p>Last night i ended up getting a lift home from a pub with Valerie. Well, she came and picked me up from the pub. It was weird to explain to my friends (who know her) that I wouldn't be getting a lift back with them because she was coming. I got a very disapproving look from Dan's girlfriend because she knows that Valerie has a boyfriend.</p> <p>Valerie came to my house and we sat downstairs for ages just talking about her boyfriend, and our history. Apparently she and her boyfriend don't really get on very well, and he doesn't want to have sex very much because she's not a "skinny blonde" and he's also constantly trying to get her to settle down and have kids.</p> <p>So basically we ended up kissing fairly late at night, and things very slowly progressed to the point where she was lying down in front of me on the sofa and I was running my fingers all over her and kissing her neck and her ear. At one point when her top had been pulled down out of the way she complained she was a bit cold, so I suggested going upstairs to where there is a bed and a proper blanket. She agreed, so we went upstairs.</p> <p>It didn't take long for things to get back to how they were downstairs. Before too long we were taking off our clothes and kissing and breathing very heavily.</p> <p>After some persuasion Valerie got on top of me and starting kissing and lightly scratching down my chest and stomach. Before too long she was below my waist. She teased for a while, kissing around my lower stomach and the top of my legs, and then she licked all the way from the base to the tip of my cock. She did that a couple of times and then I got impatient and put my hand on the back of her head and made it clear what I was after.</p> <p>After a couple of minutes of giving me a blowjob Valerie moved forwards putting my cock between her boobs (which have grown to a 34E now) and basically just teased me a bit more like that.</p> <p>When she moved over next to me on the bed I put on a condom and then rolled over and on top of her. Pushing into her seemed really tight. It felt great to be starting to have sex with someone for the first time in 3 months, and I could tell she was enjoying everything too.</p> <p>After a few seconds I started to move in and out of her a bit faster and a bit harder. It felt great. It was ncie to look down and see her really enjoying it, and her boobs moving in time with my motions. Valerie has her arms around me and was starting to scratch my back and shoulders a bit stronger than she was doing to my chest earlier. I remembered that she liked to be held down, so I grabbed her hands and held them behind her head and started to be a bit more rough.</p> <p>A few times I had to stop completely because I was so close the whole time, but Valerie was just pleased that it was lasting for more than 5 minutes, apparently. In total the sex lasted for around 30-45 minutes. Nowhere near the record, but not a bad start after the off-season.</p> <p>Now it's over with I'm seriously doubting I'll bother with Valerie again. Being with her had the unexpected effect of reminding me of her negative points over her positive points. She's not the kind of person I want to be spending my time with, and the whole situation is pretty bad, so I think I'll try to keep my distance. That being said, I did enjoy having sex...</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/06/the-drought-has-ended-7319702/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>bedmissionaryscratchkissforeplayblowjobbreastssexhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/06/the-drought-has-ended-7319702/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/04/another-blast-from-the-past-7306274/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-04:/2009/11/04/another-blast-from-the-past-7306274/Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:18:34 +0100 <p>I mentioned a girl called Sally quite a long time ago on here. I had a fairly lengthy conversation with her last night after not speaking for quite a while.</p> <p>During the conversation it was suggested that she we should meet up before the end of the year. She lives about an hour and a half away from me, so we've enver met before, although we've spoken a lot online and on the phone over the last 2 and a half years.</p> <p>Sally drives, and she wanted to get away from where she is for a while, so I suggested that she should come and visit me. Well, she agreed, and so now we're just arranging a good time for it to happen. Hopefully it'll be sooner rather than later.</p> <p>I don't know what kind of stuff she's interested in any more, but if she's anything like how she was then it'll be a pretty awesome few days...</p> <p>Fingers crossed.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/04/another-blast-from-the-past-7306274/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>sexhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/04/another-blast-from-the-past-7306274/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/03/meeting-lisa-7298104/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-03:/2009/11/03/meeting-lisa-7298104/Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:14:21 +0100 <p>As I posted yesterday I was meeting up with Lisa and our mututal friend for some drinks last night.</p> <p>After only a short amount of time our friend left and it was just Lisa and me for the rest of the night. We had a fair few drinks, and it still doesn't take many for her to get fairly drunk.</p> <p>We spent a great deal of time, from very early on in the evening, talking about the time we spent together, and mostly the sex we had. We were both very flattering to each other, which is always nice, and there was a huge amount of sexual tension. She mentioned being on anti-depressants and said they caused her to not want sex very much with her boyfriend. She certainly seemed to enjoy talking about it though.</p> <p>We had a chat about the conversation that caused Lisa and I to stop seeing each other. I wrote about it on this blog about 2 and a half years ago. She asked if I could see us together as a couple, only a few days or weeks after us agreeing that we would just be friends with benefits. Based on that conversation I gave some half-assed answer because I didn't want to fuck up what we had to try to get what I wanted. I really wanted to say yes to her back then. I found out last night that she really wanted me to say yes too.</p> <p>It was so frustrating. Knowing that I could have had things how I wanted them all that time ago. Who knows how it would have turned out? It was a major fork in the road of our lives, and we took one turn because we were both too scared to admit we wanted to take the other.</p> <p>After a bit more talking about our sexual exploits Lisa said this to me "If you were willing, and I was single, then we'd be on a bus back to your house right now," which made things even more frustrating. I replied with "if you were single and interested then we'd be in a <em>taxi</em> to my house right now!"</p> <p>After a bit more talking I was a little bit drunk, so I apologised. When she asked what for I put my hand on the side of her face and kissed her on the cheek. I wanted to kiss her on the lips, but she mistook my lean as if I was about to whisper anything so I had to abort my original plan at the last minute. She knew what I'd had in mind afterwards though, and she said there was no need to apologise. Nothing else particularly untoward happened for the rest of the night. Just a lot of talk about sex, relationships, and what things could have been like between us.</p> <p>It was rather unusual to get right into conversations like that with someone after not seeing them for ages, but it was also really nice. Hopefully we'll meet up again one day soon.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/03/meeting-lisa-7298104/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>pubflirtingkisshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/03/meeting-lisa-7298104/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/02/getting-started-7292620/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-11-02:/2009/11/02/getting-started-7292620/Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:23:27 +0100 <p>Getting started hasn't been quite as successful as I had hoped.</p> <p><strong>Cath</strong><br>A few friends and I went out the other night and I did end up kissing Cath, but only because our friends were kissing each other and we didn't want to be left out. Pretty sure she wanted to do it for other reasons, but she also wants a boyfriend, so it's less likely that I'll get involved.</p> <p><strong>Valerie</strong><br>I started getting messages from Valerie again basically as soon as she noticed I was single. She has been going out with her boyfriend for a year or so now, and this whole situation seems very familiar to how it was when I first started writing this blog. She spoke to me yesterday and was basically looking for me to convince her to cheat on her boyfriend with me. She says she doesn't want to be with him any more, and they're growing apart, and argue a lot, etc.</p> <p>I told her that if they're growing apart then she should at least talk to him about it before just randomly going off and cheating on him. It was very strange to be talking myself out of sex, when all I really wanted to do was say "ok, come over now." It made me feel quite a bit better about myself though. The urge is still there to do it, and I'm weak enough that if she suggests it again then I'll probably do it. Just hope she sorts things out with her boyfriend first. Don't like being <em>that guy</em>.</p> <p><strong>Lisa</strong><br>I got a message from Lisa, who was also around when I started writing this blog. She was asking a few folks if we wanted to go out for a drink. I'm good friends with her ex, but obviously I also have history with Lisa. You might think it would be really awkward, but it's not any more. Lisa's ex, my friend, will be joining Lisa and I for some drinks after work tonight. Lisa also has a boyfriend that she lives with, so nothing is going to happen. I just thought I'd mention it while I was on the topic of random people contacting me as soon as I became single.</p> <p><strong>Linzi</strong><br> I'm not really sure what's going on with Linzi. I text her too much. I like her a lot, but I don't want a relationship just yet. She's still in a messed up sort of relationship, and she's not very happy. Sometimes she doesn't bother texting me back, and I think she's not interested, and then she'll randomly text me and we strike up a conversation again. I keep having to resist the urge of texting her all the time, and also I have to resist the urge to ask her out somewhere.</p> <p>I have a message typed on my phone, saved as a draft from last night. It's basically a message asking if she wants to hang out somewhere one day and catch up. I feel ridiculous having even typed it, but I also really want to send it to her.</p> <p>I just don't know what I'd be like if she said no. To be honest I'm not sure what to make of it if she said yes. Blah!</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/02/getting-started-7292620/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>relationshipskisshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/11/02/getting-started-7292620/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/25/sexual-to-do-list-7239350/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-10-25:/2009/10/25/sexual-to-do-list-7239350/Sun, 25 Oct 2009 11:04:55 +0100 <p>Now I'm single I've decided I should come up with a list of things I want to do before I am back in a serious relationship. Some of these could happen while I'm in a relationship, but I'm not 100% sure about them, so I'll aim to get them done before then.</p> Have a threesome with two girls <p>This one is fairly predictable. I've had a couple of threesomes before, but never one with two girls. It'll probably be easier with two girls who don't love me, rather than someone I'm in a relationship with and some other girl. If I had a girlfriend that was bi-sexual I obviously wouldn't complain. It's <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/03/24/girls-lie-about-threesomes-3928361/">easy to find a girl who will say she wants a threeesome</a> with another girl, but it's much more difficult to actually get that thing to happen.</p> <p>I don't want the girls to both only be there for me. I want them to enjoy it with each other as much as they do with me. I don't just want to take it in turns having sex with one and then the other. I want them to do things to each, and maybe even sometimes I'm left out and I can just watch. I want to have sex with two girls who want to have sex with each other.</p> One night stand <p>I've had a one-night-stand before, sort of. I met up with a girl I had spoken to for a while and we had sex in a hotel room, and I haven't seen her since the next morning, but I knew her already. I've spoken to her online since then. The kind of thing I want to happen in this case is to find a totally random girl in a club or something, go back to her house, have sex, and then I leave in the morning before she wakes up. A proper one night stand.</p> Become a motherfucker <p>This is a bit of a strange one, but I think it would be a bit interesting. I've never had sex with a person who has a child before. I've had a blowjob from someone with a kid, but that's as far as it went. There's no particular reason for this one, just want to earn the title. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0"></p> Have sex in interesting places again <p>My ex-girlfriend of a few years ago and I used to have sex all over the place. In the car parked on the driveway, or a random street, on the landing while people were in the house downtairs, in a swimming pool full of people, in the middle of a camping site in the woods in the middle of the night, on top of a national monument in America in broad daylight while people were below... I want more stories like that.</p> <p>I can't currently remember the last time I had sex out of the house. It's probably around 5 and a half years ago now, not counting getting a bit of a blowjob on a couple of random streets one night. That's very sad.</p> Get started <p>That's pretty much my entire list for now. I'm sure I'll think of additional items at some point though. For now I just kind of want to get started having sex again. Pretty sure I could achieve this by the end of the day. Not convinced it's such a great idea though.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/25/sexual-to-do-list-7239350/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>sexblowjobrelationshipsgirlfriendthreesomehttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/25/sexual-to-do-list-7239350/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/24/cath-linzi-7237770/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-10-24:/2009/10/24/cath-linzi-7237770/Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:50:29 +0200 <p>It seems pretty mental that it's so easy to get to a sexual level with people, but I guess people are all looking for the same few things when it all comes down to it. Sex was an important enough part of life for Maslow to include it on the base of his heirarchy of needs along with food, water, and sleep!</p> <p>There's a girl I've known for a couple of months who is friends with a couple of my friends. I will call her Cath on here. She is 21 years old, graduated uni after studying journalism, and now works at a local gym on the reception for basically minimum wage. She still lives with her mum, and the house is about 10 miles away from here.</p> <p>The first few times I met her I had it in my head that I wouldn't like her, so I didn't. After a while I noticed she wasn't actually as bad as I thought. So we started to become friends. We spoke a lot on Facebook and stuff like that. A couple of weeks ago she started being quite flirtatious with me, and she often spoke about my ex and I splitting up.</p> <p>Now my ex and I have split up she's only really spoken to me once. Earlier this evening she asked me to go to her house tonight because her mum is out. I said I couldn't be bothered to go there, but would pay for her taxi to here. She didn't bother though because it was fairly late by the time I'd talked her into leaving the house.</p> <p>Pretty sure the first time we spend any time together with any privacy we would have sex. It's basically been signed, sealed, and undelivered because of a postal strike.</p> <p>The problem with having sex with Cath is that she knows quite a few people that I know, and if we ended up being stupid and hating each other then it could make things awkward for other people. It could also ruin my chances of getting together with another girl that knows her.</p> <p>This other girl is called Linzi. I knew from wher I used to work, and we have kissed a couple of times. We pretty much used to speak to each other all the time, and for about a couple of weeks I was sure we'd get together. The problem was that she had a boyfriend. Well, she still sort of has the same boyfriend now. They broke up a couple of days before I did with my ex. Linzi's boyfriend has decided that they should actually just be in an open relationship, and she's being stupid enough to agree to it because she cares for him a lot.</p> <p>Linzi is friends with same friends that Cath is friends with. This makes the whole thing very awkward.</p> <p>I would like to see Cath a few times, but I don't want to be in a relationship with her. It would just be about sex. Things with Linzi are very different. I liked her a hell of a lot back then, and I'm sure I would do again if we started to see each other at all. I don't want to rush back into another relationship right now, and I doubt she does. I also don't want to try to ge with her and have her choose her on/off boyfriend over me.</p> <p>Ordinarily I would be able to do the whole single random thing with Cath and then when I'm ready for a relationship I could see hat the state is with Linzi, but because they all know each other, and know my friends it wouldn't work that way. If I have sex with Cath then that would put me out of the runnings with Linzi.</p> <p>I really have to think about what I actually want to happen with these two girls and then come up with a course of action that makes it happen. It would be very easy to mess it up by just having sex when it's offered on a plate. I have a sinking feeling that that's what'll happen. It's been a long time for me, and I really would like to have sex with someone. Having it offered would almost certainly lead to me accepting the offer.</p> <p>Do I jeopardise a potential (however unlikely) future girl that I think I care about so I can have sex at the moment, or do I skip the sex now, and hope that things just randomly work out for the best with Linzi?</p> <p>Confused, conflicted.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/24/cath-linzi-7237770/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>sexrelationshipshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/24/cath-linzi-7237770/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/21/single-again-7216658/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-10-21:/2009/10/21/single-again-7216658/Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:20:15 +0200 <p>For the first time in 2 years and 3 months <strong>I am single</strong>. I'm not entirely sure how to feel about that.</p> <p>My ex-girlfriend and I broke up last night. It was an amicable split, and so hopefully there will be no hard feelings by the time we've finished splitting our belongings, the house, the car, etc. We just drifted apart and so we decided to call it a day before we ended up arguing about stupid things and making our lives miserable.</p> <p>I must say that the end of my relationship wasn't very enjoyable. To be quite frank I believe the last time I had sex was probably 3 months ago. That's a hell of a long time for me. I'm torn between wanting to make up for that <em>as quickly as possible</em>, and just taking it steady and seeing what happens.</p> <p>I suppose that just the fact that I'm updating here shows that I do want to get out there and do some things, but who knows how I'll feel by the time everything in my life is back to normal. I am probably accurately described as "<em>on the rebound</em>." That can lead to a lot of fun, or a lot of misery. I am aiming squarely at the fun!</p> <p>There were girls I was interested before I got in a relationship, and girls I was interested while I was in the relationship, but I'm not sure what to think about them now.</p> <p>There are a couple of girls that something could happen with in the semi-near future, but I guess I should really wait until my ex-girlfriend has moved out before I start bringing girls home...</p> <p>There are still many things I haven't done that I would like to try, even at my advanced age. Hopefully I'll get a chance to try some of them before I settle down into another relationship.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/21/single-again-7216658/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>relationshipsgirlfriendhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/10/21/single-again-7216658/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/02/06/carol-and-denise-5520636/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2009-02-06:/2009/02/06/carol-and-denise-5520636/Fri, 06 Feb 2009 18:59:25 +0100 <p>I haven't updated for a long time because nothing much has happened. I'm still with the same girlfriend, and still liking it. We bought a house together in fact!</p> <p>We still haven't stumbled across a girl for a threesome though. We know a girl called Carol that is up for it, and so are we, but she's married, oh and she lives in a foreign country...</p> <p>The other day we were chatting online and she showed us her boobs over webcam. It was weird having that happen for the benefit of both my girlfriend AND myself. I don't think anything will come of it though. I don't want to share my girlfriend with another guy, and she says she doesn't want to do anything</p> <p>There's a girl called Denise that I've mentioned a few times before on here. We started talking again recently, and I realised that I still really like her. I wish I'd been more forward when I was single. Blah. She recently broke up with her boyfriend and that makes it a bit worse. She might be on the rebound and is more likely to suggest something bad for my relationship. It's a lot harder not to do something when it's offered on a plate. Not that it has been... Blah.</p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/02/06/carol-and-denise-5520636/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2009/02/06/carol-and-denise-5520636/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/03/31/i-might-be-a-bit-paranoid-3976260/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2008-03-31:/2008/03/31/i-might-be-a-bit-paranoid-3976260/Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:19:59 +0200 <p>My friend and his fiancée broke up with each other not so long back. He's come to stay with my girlfriend and I for a while so he can try to stay away from her. This is all well and good because we get on fine and he and my other half get on well too.</p> <p>There is a bit of awkwardness in my mind though. My friend is Dan. He and I have both had threesomes with previous girlfriends of each other in the past. Since then I've kind of decided that, although I enjoyed it a fair bit previously, I don't want him screwing my girlfriend <em>now</em>.</p> <p>It's not like he's gone around asking or anything like that. Just every now and then something sexual will come up in conversation and I can feel the tension in the air. It just gets to me a little bit. They're at the gym together right now. I'm still stuck at work. I trust them both as much as I can, but I can't put the idea that something might happen out of my head. I'm sure it hasn't already happened... That doesn't help me with my paranoia about the future though. Them going to the gym is going to be a regular thing, and I can't go along because I'm always working late.</p> <p>Oh well. I guess I'll just have to make sure I keep Eliza interested in me, and trust them both. If something happens then I'll have the right to be pissed off. If I say something now then that'll just cause problems. Hopefully he'll find somewhere else to live before too long and things can go back to normal.</p> <p>In the mean time I'm still trying to find another female for a threesome. Will this saga ever end?</p> <p>Oh yeah, who the hell tagged me with "talks-a-load-of-shit"? What a stupid tag. This is the blog I've kept away from people I know so I <em>can</em> tell the whole truth. </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/03/31/i-might-be-a-bit-paranoid-3976260/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>paranoiarelationshipsthreesomeshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/03/31/i-might-be-a-bit-paranoid-3976260/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/03/24/girls-lie-about-threesomes-3928361/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2008-03-24:/2008/03/24/girls-lie-about-threesomes-3928361/Mon, 24 Mar 2008 04:05:54 +0100 <p>I can't begin to remember the amount of girls I've been with who have claimed to be interested in having a threesome with another girl. My first proper girlfriend said she was. To be fair to her she did go so far as to kiss another girl with me in the room, but then we got interrupted before anything good happened. It never came up again either. My previous girlfriend said she was very interested. She also kissed another girl with me (which I wrote about in <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/01/18/things_are_going_really_well%7E3595754">this blog entry</a> under the title of Rachel). that never quite got off the ground either though.</p> <p>My current girlfriend has said she'd be more than willing to go for a threesome, but she doesn't know any other girls who would be up for it. Understandably she doesn't want to have one with any of my previous girlfriends. She also doesn't want to have one with Sally, but that's because she somehow feels threatened by her. I can't just go out and pick up some random girl from somewhere. It'd be really weird. Going out and picking up a girl with my girlfriend would be even more strange.</p> <p>I think even if I found another willing girl there would be some excuse not to do it.</p> <p>My question is this: why say you're interested in a threesome with another girl if you're actually not?</p> <p>I suppose the obvious answer is appeasement of the males thirsting for the threesome in the first place. Still, men would be a lot more understanding about the whole thing if women took the time to explain that it was all a con and they're only passingly interested in going anywhere with the thought.</p> <p>It's such a shame. I always seem to get my hopes up when a girl says she wants to do it. You'd think I would have learned by now... If you never give up then you never fail! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0"> </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/03/24/girls-lie-about-threesomes-3928361/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>girlfriendrelationshipslieswomensexthreesomehttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/03/24/girls-lie-about-threesomes-3928361/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/01/18/things_are_going_really_well~3595754/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2008-01-18:/2008/01/18/things_are_going_really_well~3595754/Fri, 18 Jan 2008 13:50:12 +0100 <p>I've got quite a bit to catch up on since May last year. I'll give some subheadings and get on with it.</p> <p><strong>Emily</strong><br> Emily left her boyfriend, as was expected in my previous post. We stayed good friends, and then one day she announced that she was moving to London. I wasn't overly bothered about this because I had found myself a new girlfriend. We'll call this one Rachel, and I'll fill in some info on her later on.</p> <p>Emily and I still speak, and get on really well, and I think that's as far as it'll ever go. She's a good friend, and fun to hang out with. Especially when she's drunk. I'll comment more on that in the Rachel section below.</p> <p><strong>Rachel</strong><br> I went out one night with some work friends, but they all took too long to get to the club so I ended up arranging to meet them inside. Unfortunately they didn't manage to get into the club at all, and went to a different one, downstairs from it. I bumped into a few people that I used to work with and spent most of the night looking at girls with them. At one point I spotted a girl dancing who I liked the look of, and she was looking at me too. The whole "our eyes met across a crowded room" thing. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>I went over and kind of half-danced near her for a while. Eventually she came over and started to dance with me properly, and before long we kissed. She said she was out for her friends' birthday, and so she couldn't just go off and leave her friends. So I walked off and found my friends for a bit, then we met up again later on. I asked for her phone number, and she took mine too. We met up the next day for some drinks and we then went back to her house. I stayed there for 3 months without going home for more than a few bits and bobs!</p> <p>We had some good times with friends and stuff. Notably at one party we had a few drinks and Rachel and Emily ended up kissing each other. I also ended up kissing Emily in front of Rachel, and then we all kissed each other for a while. It was pretty awesome kissing two girls at the same time. It was a bit weird because of the 4 other guys in the room watching, but meh. None of them got to join in, so I was happy.</p> <p>Another interesting time with Rachel was when my friend Dan (<a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/13/here_s_what_s_new%7E2264436">had a threesome with his now fianceé Emma</a>) came over and we all had a few drinks. I was horny, so I picked up Rachel, went over to where Dan was sleeping on the inflatable mattress on the floor, and put her down and started to have sex with her. We'd spoken about having threesomes before, and she was wanting to have one with another girl, and one with another guy. I knew she would have one with Dan, and she was being all shy, so I took matters into my own hands. Dan was awake, so he knew what was happening. Before too long Rachel was into it, and asked if Dan wanted a blowjob. Obviously he did, so that all kind of happened for a bit. We switched around a bit, but then Dan and I had been drinking too much, and we ended up just going to sleep without finishing.</p> <p>The next day we hung out in town for a while, then we all went back again, and we had another threesome. It started out with me and Rachel having sex while she gave Dan a blowjob. I was going quite quickly, and before I knew it I was really quite close, so I had to stop. Rachel took this to mean that we were changing position, so she lifted herself up with my dick still inside her and that movement pushed me right to the edge. I came, but not properly. It was more just an uncontrolled flow of fluid... :\ Unimpressive. I didn't let on though, and just decided it was Dan's turn to be doing something while I sat down. So we switched position and he had sex with Rachel while she gave me a blowjob. It was a bit weird, but not bad. It was a bit annoying when she would take my dick out of her mouth, but I suppose she had to breathe or something. I would just put it back in and hold her head down.</p> <p>After a bit we tried double penetrating her. It was decided that I should be behind her and Dan should be in front because his dick is bigger than mine and it would be less likely to hurt her. I wasn't so pleased with that, either. Mine's thicker than his, and that'd be what would cause more pain. But oh well. I did my part, and when it came to Dan's turn it took him ages. It was kind of awkward, and obviously I'd already cum a bit, so I wasn't full strength. Before too long we'd kind of given up on that idea.</p> <p>We messed around a bit more, but it was getting late, so Dan was going to just stop. I told him that we couldn't just stop again because that'd be a failure. We should finish porn star style by cumming on her face. So Rachel got on her back and Dan and I got on each side of her head and started to jerk off. Before too long Dan was cumming. Rachel couldn't see because it was almost dark and she thought it was me and started to move her mouth towards my dick, but I moved her back and said it wasn't me. Dan finished, and it was quite unimpressive because it kind of just dribbled out. It took me a couple more minutes because I was thinking too much, but then I came all over Rachel's face and then she sucked my dick a little bit before going and cleaning herself up.</p> <p>So yeah, those are the particularly interesting events. Rachel did agree to have a threesome with a girl we'll call Lara, but that never happened because of the stuff below... I went out one night and saw Lara in a club. She's a friend of Dan's fianceé Emma, so I'd met her before. I talked to her for a while, then she asked how my girlfriend was. I said she was fine, and then Lara kissed me, and called me a cheat. It was quite bizarre because her boyfriend was about 3 metres away (luckily) facing the other direction.</p> <p>A few days after I moved in with Rachel a new girl started working nearby at work. After a couple of months we'd realised we had quite a lot in common, and we began spending a lot of time talking, and flirting. I knew I couldn't stay with Rachel any longer, and so I told her, and we split up so I could be with...</p> <p><strong>Eliza<br> </strong>Eliza and I kissed for the first time on September 29th, 2007 and we haven't spent a day apart since then. I moved in with my friend, and so did Eliza after a couple of weeks. Then we moved to my mum's for a week, then her parents' for a week, and now we're in our own house that we're renting.</p> <p>We're both really happy with each other, although we do argue from time to time. It's a good sign that we can handle it and still be really great together.</p> <p>We've had all the usual discussions about things we'd like to do, and threesomes have come up. Now Eliza has agreed to having one with Lara, and I'm in the process of trying to get it arranged. It'll be awesome if it happens because I've not had a threesome with 2 girls before. Eliza says she doesn't want to have a threesome with another guy, but I can't tell if she's saying that because she thinks that's what I want to hear, or because it's the truth. We'll see with time.</p> <p><strong>Sally</strong><br> There is one other girl in the mix called Sally. She really seems interested in sex, a lot, with me. I've spoken to her a few times, and the things she wants to do are filthy, but really interesting sounding. The problem is that I have a girlfriend, and Sally lives in Birmingham. I'm trying not to do anything with her, but it's so tempting because she wants it so much. I'll be strong! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p><strong>Roundup</strong><br> So yeah, that's the last few months of my life with a distinct focus on the sex and relationships. I'll try to update a bit more over the next few weeks because they could be really interesting! </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/01/18/things_are_going_really_well~3595754/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>facialcumdouble-penetrationblowjobsexoralrelationshipsanalgirlfriendthreesomehttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2008/01/18/things_are_going_really_well~3595754/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/06/01/emily_and_her_boyfriend~2370816/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-05-31:/2007/06/01/emily_and_her_boyfriend~2370816/Fri, 01 Jun 2007 00:52:32 +0200 <p>Emily has a boyfriend still. We'll call him Tim. He lives near where Emily went to university, which is quite far from here.</p> <p>I had a really long conversation with Emily about their relationship today, and we have done so before, too. Emily's positive Tim's not the guy for her any more. She has some unresolved things with him, meaning she's not going to end things just yet because it'd be more than a bit mean on him. Personally I think I'd rather know the full truth straight away. If I say that it's meaner <em>not</em> to tell him I just sound like I'm trying to split them up.</p> <p>I really have tried to be impartial, suggesting that she tells him she's having doubts and watches how he tries to make it better. She said she doesn't want him to try to make it better though. She just wants to end things with him, in a non-mean way. That means she'll be with him for another month.</p> <p>She did agree that she should probably have a bit of a chat with him though. So that'll probably be happening at some point fairly soon. Probably the weekend after this one, in fact.</p> <p>Now, I have unresolved issues with Emily myself. I can't work out what she's interested in. I don't know if she just wants to be friends with me, or if she likes me, but is hiding it. It's tough to tell. The advice she gave me about Valerie makes me suspect she likes me. Also the fact that she's convinced she doesn't want to be with Tim makes me think she's looking for someone else. We've both mentioned to each other how our parents have said we should get together (which is kinda strange). I just don't want to make a fool of myself by asking her outright while I'm unsure!</p> <p>Any thoughts? :\ </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/06/01/emily_and_her_boyfriend~2370816/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>confusionrelationshipshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/06/01/emily_and_her_boyfriend~2370816/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/31/totally_right_about_valerie~2364628/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-05-30:/2007/05/31/totally_right_about_valerie~2364628/Thu, 31 May 2007 00:53:18 +0200 <p>Valerie sent a bunch of messages to me today. It got to the point where we were both just openly flirting with each other. I pointed it out and she asked if it was a problem. I said no, but that flirting usually ended up going in one particular direction. Then I asked her if that was her plan all along and said she was just trying to get me into bed.</p> <p>Valerie said <em>I</em> was trying to get <em>her</em> into bed! The cheek of it. I'd spent all night being disallowed from speaking to her. I certainly wasn't the one who instigated the flirting, let alone the conversation after weeks of being blanked and ignored. So, she pissed me off a bit with her comment.</p> <p>I replied with "How is that? Was it when you invited me into town, then sent a hundred messages asking when I'd get there, then called me the next day, then sent more messages?" Then a second one a few seconds later saying "Thought so. <img src="/img/smilies/graybigrazz.gif" alt=":P" class="middle" border="0">"</p> <p>She didn't reply for a few hours, but I managed to hold back from saying anything to her. Eventually I got a message saying "I did not send.. A hundred texts!! I was hammered you realise how long it took me to right a text lol... But ok i was trying to get you into bed lol"</p> <p>I fricking won! I got her to admit she is the one chasing me. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"> That has <em>never</em> happened before with Valerie. She's a very stubborn person and always tried to make it seem like I was the only one getting something out of us seeing each other. I was grinning constantly for a good 10 minutes. I thanked Emily for her advice, as it does seem to be paying off nicely.</p> <p>The ball is well and truly in my court. I just need to decide which direction to hit it, and how hard. </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/31/totally_right_about_valerie~2364628/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>chaseflirtingrelationshipshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/31/totally_right_about_valerie~2364628/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/30/what_to_do_about_valerie_or_emily~2359519/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-05-30:/2007/05/30/what_to_do_about_valerie_or_emily~2359519/Wed, 30 May 2007 09:44:50 +0200 <p>Valerie's got me kinda confused again... With a little help from Emily, my friend and self-appointed relationship advisor.</p> <p>She called me yesterday and spoke to me until her credit ran out. Then when I called back we spoke for a minute or so and she said she'd text me later on because she was having her dinner.</p> <p>She did text me later on, but Emily told me I shouldn't reply. So I didn't. I got another message a bit later on saying "Quiet?" Emily still wouldn't let me reply to it. Apparently I shouldn't be so quick to reply to her, and have a chat...</p> <p>I don't really do the whole mind-game trick-playing thing if I can avoid it--usually I can--so I'm in new waters with this. I just think it's a bit rude not to reply to a message. Especially since I was just being friendly. The first message said "Biggest hang over to date Hehe i'm surprised i made it home... And not to somewhere else o_O" That sounds like she was expecting to end up at my house, to me... But I might be interpreting it incorrectly.</p> <p>I was chatting to Emily for a good hour or so about her boyfriend. She said she's not interested in him any more because all the things she used to like him for are now the things she dislikes about him. The last week or so spent with Emily (almost every day) has made me suspect she kinda likes me. I might just be mistaking long-standing friendship and comfortableness though. I did ask her out once, about 7 years ago, but she said we were just friends back then.</p> <p>She went away to university and I went to California, so we didn't speak for a very long time. Perhaps she sees things differently now. She's definitely very flirtatious. She keeps raising her eyebrows when she looks at me and making suggestive comments... But that doesn't really mean much.</p> <p>The thing that has me thinking the most is her advice about Valerie. She keeps telling me to do things that I would say hinder my chances of anything normal taking place--even just being friends. It seems almost kind of like a sabotage. I don't know what to think though. Perhaps my ego is just running away with me.</p> <p>Any sage-like advice would be greatly appreciated. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_neutral.gif" alt=":|" class="middle" border="0"> </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/30/what_to_do_about_valerie_or_emily~2359519/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>relationshipshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/30/what_to_do_about_valerie_or_emily~2359519/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/valerie_another_sudden_interest~2355000/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-05-29:/2007/05/29/valerie_another_sudden_interest~2355000/Tue, 29 May 2007 15:39:50 +0200 <p>Valerie's back in town, as I mentioned a couple of entries ago. I am still totally past caring about a relationship with her. I know that'd be a bad idea... But... Yesterday she was sending me text messages for ages asking if I was going out into town. I said I would do, and from then on she kept pestering me to see when I'd turn up. I kept putting it off because I was out with other people, but kept telling her that I'd make it eventually.</p> <p>Luckily for me one of the people that I was out with, we'll call her Emily, was giving me advice on what to put in my messages. One went something like "I'm out with someone at the moment. I'll be coming out soon." which, according to Emily, is supposed to make her a bit jealous.</p> <p>Valerie replied with "You're crap" and Emily would not let me reply to that message. A couple of minutes later Valerie sent along another message saying "Pleaseeee Hehe soon hammerede Hehe" which let me know just how desperate, and drunk, she was. I didn't reply to that one either, until I was almost in town. Then I asked her where she was and went and met her.</p> <p>After a few minutes with her and her friends one of them came over to me and said that she thinks Valerie was showing off for me. Later on in the night she asked if Valerie and I had kissed yet. She said she was positive that we definitely would do during the night. The way Valerie was behaving I was expecting it myself. But nothing happened. We danced a lot, and there were times when we were talking and our heads were together that we just stayed like that without saying anything, but there was no kiss.</p> <p>In the end Valerie had to go meet her once-ex-fiancée for a lift home. I also got a lift home, from someone else, and went to sleep, alone.</p> <p>I can't help but think that the night could have gone <em>very</em> differently if I'd put some effort into it, but I really don't know if I want to or not.</p> <p>She's cool to hang out with most of the time, and she's good in bed... She also has a fiancée again, and would not be very good for a relationship.</p> <p>Perhaps I should just play it by ear. See if she's really as interested as everyone, including me, seems to think, and then make my mind up what to do from there. If anything it'll just be a bit of harmless fun... I don't think she'll last much longer with her fiancé. My guess was a month or two, and I think it'll be about right. Apparently they spend most of their time arguing at the moment. I just happen to be around being the nice understanding person.</p> <p>Just hope I don't fumble the ball and run all the way into <em><strong>The Friend Zone</strong></em>! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>Here are some more of her messages from last night. Tell me if you think she's as interested in me as I suspect. Some are more obvious (and coherent) than the others. They're arranged chronologically.</p> <p>"I can see you skipping it due to a prior arrangement <img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0">"<br> "Good good so come down town"<br> "You coming?"<br> "Why not now... Hurry up.! Or lose out"<br> "I don't no Hehe just hurry up you said you were coming hours ago..!... Typical man"<br> "Pleaseeee Hehe soon hammerede Hehe" </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/valerie_another_sudden_interest~2355000/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>drunkrelationshipshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/valerie_another_sudden_interest~2355000/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/lisa_s_late_night_visit~2354856/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-05-29:/2007/05/29/lisa_s_late_night_visit~2354856/Tue, 29 May 2007 15:18:11 +0200 <p>Lisa came over to my house early (2am) on Monday morning after she'd been to work until 23:30, gone home to shower and do her hair.</p> <p>The pretence this time was that I'd be helping her to write a CV. I would have done so had she not taken so long to get to my house. By the time she got to my house neither of us could be bothered to start a CV. We didn't even watch a movie or anything. We just got on my bed and spoke for a while.</p> <p>Lisa told me I should turn off my light and my monitors because it was too bright in the room. So I did. We then had a drink each. Malibu for Lisa and JD for me. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>After a couple of minutes she was getting pretty drunk. It was pretty quick, but no denying it. When she'd finished her drink (long after mine was gone) she said it was time for her to go have a cigarette. She started to climb over me to get off the bed and I pulled her down onto me.</p> <p>She asked if I thought this stuff was a good idea because we seem to do it, then not speak to each other for a couple of months, then meet up to do it again, etc. This was quite strange because the night before she'd been talking to me about whether I think she and I could ever date each other properly. I think I could do, and I think we'd have a lot of fun while it lasted. I don't think it'd last very long though. Certainly not with everything how it is now. Perhaps when things are different it'll be worth looking at in greater detail.</p> <p>That was a big digression... Basically I said I thought it <em>was</em> a good idea. and then pulled her head down to mine and kissed her. She hesitated for a few seconds, but then I rolled her over onto her back and kissed her some more. She soon made up her mind and started kissing back. I remembered (thanks to this blog) that she likes her ears being nibbled, so I did that for a while and she said she was glad I'd remembered. (She knows I write this blog now, but she doesn't know the address for it. She also knows her name has been changed.) After a few minutes of kissing and stuff she was getting very into it. I stopped and said it was time for her cigarette. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>When we got back to my room afterwards we went pretty much straight into kissing again. Before too long we had our hands all over each other. She'd mentioned on the phone that she went down on me a lot more than I ever went down on her. I started my efforts to correct the ratio. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"> She definitely enjoyed that a lot. I enjoy doing it. I guess I just sort of forget to actually do it.</p> <p>Lisa told me she wanted sex, and obviously I did too. She said she had to do something before we did though, so it was less painful for her. (She's pretty small as it is. She's also not the most experienced person I know.) She began masturbating and we were kissing a lot while she did. Then I moved my hand over to help her out. She gave me a bit of guidance so she was enjoying it more. I think that must have gone on for about half an hour or so before she came. Definitely feels good to know you're responsible for it. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"> For most of the last part she was using her hand on me at the same time. I think it actually helped make it easier because she was holding something, as well as kissing someone... That's gotta make it better than just doing it by yourself, right?</p> <p>After that she was apparently too tired for sex though, so we ended up just going to sleep with the promise that she would give me a blowjob in the morning. Not that anything was required in return... And it's a good job! The next day Lisa didn't really feel like doing anything because of her lack of sleep, and I had to be out of the house quite early anyway. She says she owes me, and that's fine, but I'm not too bothered about claiming it. I don't mind it being one-sided sometimes. It's still fun. </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/lisa_s_late_night_visit~2354856/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>handjobrelationshipsforeplaybedfingeringoralhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/lisa_s_late_night_visit~2354856/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/lisa_and_valerie_standings~2354748/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-05-29:/2007/05/29/lisa_and_valerie_standings~2354748/Tue, 29 May 2007 14:59:17 +0200 <p>Lisa came over to my house early (2am) on Monday morning after she'd been to work until 23:30, gone home to shower and do her hair.</p> <p>The pretence this time was that I'd be helping her to write a CV. I would have done so had she not taken so long to get to my house. By the time she got to my house neither of us could be bothered to start a CV. We didn't even watch a movie or anything. We just got on my bed and spoke for a while.</p> <p>Lisa told me I should turn off my light and my monitors because it was too bright in the room. So I did. We then had a drink each. Malibu for Lisa and JD for me. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>After a couple of minutes she was getting pretty drunk. It was pretty quick, but no denying it. When she'd finished her drink (long after mine was gone) she said it was time for her to go have a cigarette. She started to climb over me to get off the bed and I pulled her down onto me.</p> <p>She asked if I thought this stuff was a good idea because we seem to do it, then not speak to each other for a couple o </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/lisa_and_valerie_standings~2354748/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/29/lisa_and_valerie_standings~2354748/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/13/here_s_what_s_new~2264436/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-05-13:/2007/05/13/here_s_what_s_new~2264436/Sun, 13 May 2007 21:46:40 +0200 <p>It's been quite a while since I last updated. Nearly 2 months, in fact.</p> <p>In that time Valerie's done all of her training down in London. She came back up for my birthday weekend and we stayed in a hotel. Needless to say that was good. After that she came back up every weekend, but didn't see me once. I found out from one of her friends that she did manage to see her ex-boyfriend though. Long story short: she's back in town, and back with her ex. Oh well. I was annoyed at first because she just kept lying to me rather than telling me it was over and letting me move on. Now I'm just about past caring. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>There's a new girl that I like quite a lot. As far as this blog's concerned her name is Lola. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"> Well, she has a boyfriend (yeah, I'm great like that) and she's not happy with him. Sound familiar? Not a great deal has happened up to yet. Just a few kisses stolen away when we've had a chance. A couple of "dates" too. One just a meeting in Bruger King, the second was a trip to the cinema to see Next.</p> <p>Things are pretty cool with her, but it's not going to work out for quite a while, if at all.</p> <p>On Friday I was talking to my friend and his girlfriend (we'll call them Dan and Emma) on the computer and I got a webcam invitation. After a little while they were kinda busy on cam. It was quite strange seeing them have sex. Then they invited me over to join in! <img class="smiley" src="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/tinymce/jss/plugins/blogdeemotions/smilies/092eek.gif" border="0" alt=""> I didn't go over there though. I didn't think they were serious. Turns out they were. We went out to a club last night and when we got off the bus at the stop Dan told Emma she should give us both a blowjob beside the road. So she did.</p> <p>Now, it didn't go on for long, not to completion because of where we were. We came back to my house to pick up a phone charger for Dan, then Emma carried on with the blowjobs outside my house. At some point we were joking around about things and ummm... Yeah. We were drunk, and neither me nor Dan back down easily. I don't really know how to phrase this, so I'm just going to say it quickly. For the sake of not backing down he ended up doing what Emma had been doing to me for a second, and I did the same to him... Yeah... I don't know what to think about it today. On one hand I'm not that freaked out by it, because I'm pretty comfortable with who I am, and what I want. On the other hand I think it's pretty fucking crazy!</p> <p>Anyway, we ended up going back to Emma's house where she carried on where she'd left off again. A little while later Dan was having sex with her while she carried on giving me a blowjob.</p> <p>I've never had a threesome before in my life. I always expected it'd be with two women if I did, too. Oh well. I wasn't anywhere near as weirded out by it as I expected. </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/13/here_s_what_s_new~2264436/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>daterelationshipsliesthreesomesexcheatingdoggyblowjobhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/05/13/here_s_what_s_new~2264436/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/22/going_out~1952515/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-03-22:/2007/03/22/going_out~1952515/Thu, 22 Mar 2007 12:15:12 +0100 <p>No, not going out as in dating... I'm going out into town tonight with Valerie. She made a point of telling me that her house will be empty tonight and tomorrow night... Looks like I'll be away from home for a couple of days then. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>Her new costume has arrived too. She sent me a picture of her wearing it this morning. This isn't that picture, because that's not Valerie, but it's close enough! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"><img class="smiley" src="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/tinymce/jss/plugins/blogdeemotions/smilies/graybigeek.gif" border="0" alt=""> Stunning!</p> <p><a href="http://www.playdressup.co.uk/acatalog/info_51.html"><img src="http://www.playdressup.co.uk/acatalog/sexy_dorothy_alice_costume_large.jpg" alt="New costume" title="Mmm, yes please!"></a></p> <p>Looking forward to it already! </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/22/going_out~1952515/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>going-outdressing-uphttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/22/going_out~1952515/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/20/i_screwed_snow_white~1938707/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-03-20:/2007/03/20/i_screwed_snow_white~1938707/Tue, 20 Mar 2007 11:59:00 +0100 <p>Valerie came over yesterday with her Snow White outfit that she bought for Red Nose Day. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>It made my day! She only agreed to put it on for me if I put on a pirate costume I had left over from Hallowe'en a few years ago. I didn't <em>really</em> have to think about it for very long. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>It was a <em><strong>good</strong></em> night!</p> <p>Part of the time Valerie was face down on the bed. She has "aluminium blonde" hair, and I swear it was the weirdest thing, looking down and seeing (for all intents and purposes) Snow White... She was naked after a little while though, and that was good too! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"> </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/20/i_screwed_snow_white~1938707/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>dressing-upsexcostumedoggyhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/20/i_screwed_snow_white~1938707/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/16/valerie_early_morning_calls~1915509/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-03-16:/2007/03/16/valerie_early_morning_calls~1915509/Fri, 16 Mar 2007 14:31:10 +0100 <p>Valerie sent me a text message this morning at 01:35:</p> <blockquote><p> I want you so much.. I missed not dancing with you tonight.. So hungry.. And drunk <img src="/img/smilies/icon_sad.gif" alt=":(" class="middle" border="0"> x<br> </blockquote> I replied straight awaybecause I was still awake anyway. A few seconds later I was still playing with my phone when I got what was supposed to be a prank from Valerie. I was pressing keys, so I answered it by mistake. I called her back after she'd hung up and we had a bit of a chat for a while.</p> <p>She was out with a bunch of her friends. I had a bi of a chat with one of them too. She was telling me how Valerie had been really good and hadn't danced with any guys, or anything like that. It sounds really silly, but I was actually kinda touched that they would say that.</p> <p>We stopped talking for a while so Valerie could get something to eat and get a taxi home. She pranked me again when she was back. I called her back and we were talking for over an hour.</p> <p>I really kinda realised I like her <em>a lot</em> then. I was obviously worried that Valerie would go out and be flirting and dancing with anyone and stuff.</p> <p>I suppose there's no point saying I can take it or leave it now, since there's obviously something a bit more there... At least on my side of the fence. It seems the same on her side too though. Very nice. </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/16/valerie_early_morning_calls~1915509/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>girlfrienddrunkhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/16/valerie_early_morning_calls~1915509/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/16/valerie_sex_now_she_s_single~1912933/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-03-16:/2007/03/16/valerie_sex_now_she_s_single~1912933/Fri, 16 Mar 2007 01:07:34 +0100 <p>Valerie picked me up from work again today and we came back to my house for a few hours before we both went out to different places. We got back and the house was empty, much to my happiness.</p> <p>We had a bit of a talk about the night before. Things seem to be getting better for her already, which is good. She still has a few things to sort out with her ex, but I'm sure she's positive about her decision to leave him. Even if she's not with me she <em>shouldn't</em> be with him.</p> <p>We ended up play-fighting on my bed because I slapped her ass or something. She hits pretty damn <strong>hard</strong>! Of course this turned into us taking each others clothes off, for a change. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0"> Valerie had shaved her legs, and a few other places, and she was comfortable enough with herself to actually let me go down on her for the first time. I'd tried before, but I wasn't allowed. I know she enjoyed that a lot. The whole session after the going down and some fingering consisted of me on top, and it was goooood. Valerie proved yet again that she has good self-control and waited until I was ready before she came. Can't beat it.</p> <p>We lied together in bed for a few minutes afterwards. It was ridiculously hot by that point, and it was so nice just not moving any more. Feeling my heart beat slow down to something that didn't run the risk of breaking my rib cage!</p> <p>She's out in town tonight, and I'm a bit worried about a few things... She's newly single, so she might go do something random or something. I'd feel kinda bad I think... Although I'd feel better if she told me in an off-the-cuff sort of manner, so I know where we stand. If she denies something then I'll just suspect something anyway. Damn me and the situations I put myself in! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_neutral.gif" alt=":|" class="middle" border="0"> Oh well! I actually don't think she'd do anything. Call me a sucker. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"> </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/16/valerie_sex_now_she_s_single~1912933/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>bedmissionaryforeplaysexgoing-downfingeringscratchticklinggirlfriendhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/16/valerie_sex_now_she_s_single~1912933/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/15/valerie_she_s_single_for_now~1911740/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-03-15:/2007/03/15/valerie_she_s_single_for_now~1911740/Thu, 15 Mar 2007 21:03:26 +0100 <p>Valerie ended up breaking up with her boyfriend last night. She's now single for the first time in a few months.</p> <p>The two of us have agreed to give a relationship a try when she returns from her training some time in May... Until then Iit seems like we're going to continue with our hanging out with each other. I don't really see how it's much different from a relationship really. Not unless she has some other guy on the side or I have another girl. I haven't bothered with anyone else since this more serious stuff began with Valerie. It would just feel kinda wrong until I know the score.</p> <p>Oh well... The situation's moving on. Just a couple of weeks until Valerie goes away... Then 5 weeks of sitting around getting bored. It's quite confusing being single, but knowing you're going to get with someone in a couple of months... Anything I do will probably feel like cheating, and might be seen that way by Valerie. Pfft. It's all silliness. I'll see if I can get a bit more of a concrete thing with Valerie before she goes away. Two weeks should suffice!</p> <p>Charm mode: <strong>on</strong> </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/15/valerie_she_s_single_for_now~1911740/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>confusionfuturegirlfriendrelationshipsbreak-upshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/15/valerie_she_s_single_for_now~1911740/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/15/valerie_my_next_girlfriend_and_i_caught_~1907028/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-03-15:/2007/03/15/valerie_my_next_girlfriend_and_i_caught_~1907028/Thu, 15 Mar 2007 01:38:44 +0100 <p>Valerie and I had a talk, as I kinda brushed over previously. She told me she's going to be dumping her present boyfriend in the near future (I believe her because of tonight's events (later in the entry)), and she would like for something to happen between us. After a lot of shy discussion we agreed that we liked each other as more than just friends and would like to give things a go as a serious relationship.</p> <p>Valerie, as I've mentioned a few times now, is going to be away from the area for 5 weeks of training in a couple of weeks from now. She said she's going to dump her current boyfriend ASAP, but wants to stay single until she's back from the training because there's no point in us being "together" but not together. It sounds pretty smart to me, even if all it means is she wants to sleep around a bit first. That's what <em>I</em> wanna do anyway. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>So, I have about 7 weeks of being single left now. Any fun I want to have in the time between now and then is up to me, same as it's up to her. Valerie has said she'll want to be coming back at the weekends for sex though, which suits me down to the ground! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"> With any luck she's actually going to follow through on what she's been saying and visit me for my birthday on Easter Sunday. We have a sort of idea of travelling somewhere cool for the long weekend. It'd be nice if it worked out, but I'm not holding my breath. A lot of people are all talk.</p> <p>Anyway, this all kind of brings me to today. Valerie met me after she finished work tonight with my friend in the pub for the quiz. Her phone ran out of battery at a fairly early point of the night. After the quiz my friend left us together. We spoke for a few minutes and then went outside. To my absolute horror I discovered that Valerie's current boyfriend, John, had parked up next to Valerie in the car park and was waiting for her to come out. Obviously I didn't notice this until I was already at the car, and so it was kinda too late to turn around.</p> <p>He was <em><strong>not</strong></em> pleased. She got the regular "who the <strong><em>fuck</em></strong> is that?!?" She explained that I was someone she knew from work and I kept my mouth closed and looked at the ground for a while. The night ended for me with Valerie giving me a lift home while her boyfriend followed us in the car behind. They had a nice little race because they were both pissed off. As far as I know they're now having a "talk."</p> <p>This would be the ideal opportunity for Valerie to get rid of him, if she's serious.</p> <p>Awesome stuff, eh? <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"> </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/15/valerie_my_next_girlfriend_and_i_caught_~1907028/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>dateinterruptedgirlfriendpubhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/15/valerie_my_next_girlfriend_and_i_caught_~1907028/#commentshttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/14/valerie_sex_is_gooood~1904036/tag:sexplore.blog.co.uk,2007-03-14:/2007/03/14/valerie_sex_is_gooood~1904036/Wed, 14 Mar 2007 17:34:20 +0100 <p>Valerie picked me up from work yesterday and we went straight back to my house. I was going to be helping her set up a wireless network at her house, but we never really got that far.</p> <p>We hung out listening to music for quite a while, then we got in my bed, fully clothed, and sat talking about what we were thinking of each other and the whole <em>state of the union</em> type conversation. I was pleased that we both felt very similarly about each other and things seemed to be going well.</p> <p>Before too long we'd drifted onto other topics. Well, we'd pretty much stopped talking altogether. We spent a lot of time kissing and stuff. It was a lot more comfortable this time. No awkwardness before the first kiss of the day.</p> <p>When it was nice and dark and quiet we began doing a bit more stuff. At one point I had to change the song playing on the computer or something... I turned back around to the bed afterwards to find Valerie sitting there with no top on, just a white bra. <img src="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/tinymce/jss/plugins/blogdeemotions/smilies/092eek.gif" border="0" alt=""> She has an amazing sun tan, and the combination of low light and the white bra just made her look perfect. I pretty much rugby tackled her back onto the bed and then we both undressed each other pretty hurriedly. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>Pretty quickly we were having sex. It started out, as is almost always the case, with me on top. It actually stayed like that the entire time. That makes it sound like it didn't last long, but it really did. Over an hour, anyway. My record is 6.5 hours, which I don't have the time to beat these days! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0"> Basically I was on top the entire time, but we varied that a little bit. Sometimes she'd put her hands up and I'd pin her down. She really likes to feel a bit helpless. Somewhat of a thrill, I think. I couldn't really do everything I wanted because I didn't have the house to myself. It's tough to keep the noises to an overall volume similar to that of a hummingbird collecting pollen a kilometre away. How come parents have such good hearing for the things you wish they'd never hear?</p> <p>Anyway, I let Valerie know I was close, and I could tell she was too. A few seconds later I came, only to find that she had been controlling herself ridiculously well, and came at the same time. That's always great! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"> She told me that she can always control it like that, so that's a good thing. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"></p> <p>We stayed in bed for a while and after about half an hour it was suggested that we go again, and so we did. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"> This time I started out on top, but <em>didn't</em> stay like that this time. I got Valerie on top for quite a while and she was even better than before. I really do enjoy just letting her do her thing. She knows what she's doing!</p> <p>I moved around behind her and we did it doggy-style for a time. It was making the bed creak quite a bit though, so I held her ankles and pulled her arms out from underneath her. She likes it a bit rough. <img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0"> When she was flat on her stomach I carried on, and I could move a lot faster from behind her like that. She told me it had been a while since she'd done it in that position. We must have stayed in that position for at least 15 minutes, and eventually I reached the point I'd been aiming for and came again. Both of us were well and truly knackered by this point. We'd spent at least 50 minutes on the <em>second</em> time! It was a good night.</p> <p>We were lying down to go to sleep a little while alter when Valerie started kissing me and nibbling my ear and kissing my neck. She moved down a bit further and kissed my chest a bit. I thought then that she was going to give me a blowjob. I was <strong>correct</strong>!</p> <p>Unfortunately it hadn't been very long since we'd had sex, twice, so I wasn't really in much of a state to do anything. She carried on just licking and sucking for a long time. It felt really good, but I was exhausted. As much as I hated to say it there was nothing I could do. She stopped after a while, unperturbed, and we went to sleep.</p> <p>It was the best night in recent memory! <img src="/img/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" class="middle" border="0"> Gooooood stuff! </p> <p> <small> <a href="http://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/14/valerie_sex_is_gooood~1904036/#comments">Comments</a> </small> </p>missionarysexdoggygirlfriendforeplayblowjobbedhttp://sexplore.blog.co.uk/2007/03/14/valerie_sex_is_gooood~1904036/#comments