Sexploration

In response to:The drought has ended

2009-11-06T15:30:15+01:00

glad you had a good one ;) wish my drought would finish!!! LOL!! :))

In response to:Valerie - Sex is gooood :)

2008-03-24T04:16:40+01:00

Back when I lasted that long there was quite a few changes of position and I was still fairly new to sex. Now it seems I take it for granted a lot more. My advice would just be to try harder not to rush it. Take your time and enjoy it... But not too much! :)

In response to:Valerie - Spent a couple of nights together

2008-03-24T04:13:16+01:00

Argh, write it in English too! :) It looks interesting, but I don't know Romanian. Only a few words are guessable for me. Sex being one of them.

In response to:Valerie - Sex is gooood :)

2008-02-18T12:00:53+01:00

6.5 hours? Wooow ... my record is 2 hours without pause. Care to share some techniques ?

In response to:Valerie - Spent a couple of nights together

2008-02-17T10:58:51+01:00

Woow this happened to me in an almost identical way. I started my blog due to a similar experience. Too bad it's in romanian: angelsin.wordpress.com

In response to:Lisa's late night visit

2007-06-24T11:57:57+02:00

lol at least you have the freedom to use your hands if you have to.

In response to:What to do about Valerie, or Emily?

2007-06-24T11:53:41+02:00

hey stubie
i havent read your blog before but it sounds interesting. maybe we could be friends. my real blog is http://americanboy.blog.co.uk. its sorta attached to my sorta brothers blog because hes got a pro membership.
im not touchin any advice on women tho, man. im still tryin to sort all that out myself.

michael :o))

In response to:Emily and her boyfriend

2007-06-19T17:22:14+02:00

It sounds to me like Emily wants to have her cake and eat it to. She must still like the guy a bit for if she wasnt that into him, she'd feel bad but end things. So, she has you for great nookie and him for whatever reason she stays with him.

Antlady is right, decide what you want from her and go on from there. you could call her bluff and tell her you want to cool things so she can deal with Tim without distractions. How swiftly she she acts after will indicate once and for all whether she wants to be with you or wants you as an exciting bit on the side.

Good luck!

In response to:Emily and her boyfriend

2007-06-03T14:33:25+02:00

Hmm, very difficult. Personally, I prefer the direct approach and talk about it. It's surprising how much better / more relieved one feels when things are clarified. Takes a load off your back for sure!

It's difficult to speak for others, though, because we're all so different. Maybe you can try to bring up the subject, tell her that you are unsure about her intentions. If you opt for that, do it on neutral / public grounds, with no alcohol or other drugs to distract you. Depending on what she replies, reassure her that you are happy in your non-sexual friendship with her (if that is the case).

Which brings up the question: what is it that YOU want from Emily? Only the status quo, or would you rather have a relationship with her? You need to be clear about your feelings before you bring it up to Emily.

Hope this helps a little bit... ;)

In response to:Totally right about Valerie

2007-06-03T14:23:18+02:00

Correct! You're seeing it very clearly - Valerie might be good for a shag, but she seems to like the game more than a relationship. And you'd indeed be diminishing your other chances.

Just catching up with your blog, BTW.

In response to:What to do about Valerie, or Emily?

2007-06-01T00:44:28+02:00

I think you're right about Valerie, actually. She does seem to just want me after her. Emily was saying the same thing. She wants me there to say she can get two men, etc. I'm not so sure about the hassle-free fun either. She has a fiancée. I'd get a lot of hassle if he found out. :|

As for Emily... See my next blog entry.

In response to:Totally right about Valerie

2007-06-01T00:39:51+02:00

I don't think I actually want her back... Some random fun might be interesting, but she's started playing little games already. I might just end it all.

While I'm pissing around with Valerie I'm probably screwing over my chances with anyone else.

In response to:Lisa's late night visit

2007-06-01T00:38:45+02:00

It certainly seems that way. I only write this blog in times of singleness. Too much time on my hands... Or too much time with my hands. :(

In response to:Valerie, another sudden interest

2007-05-31T12:29:19+02:00

all of it! ;)

In response to:Lisa's late night visit

2007-05-31T12:28:48+02:00

:yes: I agree,

Now you're single does that mean you're back?

In response to:Totally right about Valerie

2007-05-31T00:56:30+02:00

be careful she likes the thrill of the chase, she has always liked u chasing her then has enjoyed chasing u, it may all end in tears once the excitement ends xx

In response to:What to do about Valerie, or Emily?

2007-05-31T00:52:55+02:00

ok darling to be honest all u are gonna have with valerie is her fucking u about and using u as a back up ego boost, she has already established that she can pick u up and drop u as she pleases. If u want and can do hassle free fun that's all u will get from her.
emily obviously likes u and there is more relationship potential but i sense she wont take the whole fucking her about thing and she wants a more serious commited relationship because she cares about u xxx

In response to:Valerie, another sudden interest

2007-05-30T09:32:57+02:00

At any part in particular, or just the whole thing? :)

In response to:Lisa's late night visit

2007-05-30T09:32:26+02:00

Haha, good stuff. :)

I should be an adult-fiction writer!

In response to:Lisa's late night visit

2007-05-29T17:37:17+02:00

I got a little hot reading that.. :))

In response to:Valerie, another sudden interest

2007-05-29T17:33:58+02:00

LOL

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-21T02:05:42+02:00

Yeah, I only do things to blog about them. It certainly seems that way sometimes. :P It's the first thing that's come to mind on a couple of occasions. "Yeah, it'd be a funny story!" :)

Sex was all I was looking for to begin with. I made the mistake of thinking it could be something more. What annoys me most about it is that she's the one who said she didn't want to be single, but she did want to concentrate entirely on her course. I would never have said we'd get together properly after her course if she'd said she just wanted sex. I'd still be getting what I wanted now if that had been the case. Oh well.

I'll find someone else and not rush into anything remotely serious any time soon. Just gotta find the happy medium between serious relationship and regular sex. :|

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-20T14:43:38+02:00

Hi Stubie - good to have you back!

Don't worry about the experience - you have to try everything once, right? ;) You did, and it's not for you. Nothing wrong with it. And it gave you something to blog about ;)

Sorry to hear about Valerie, though. You indicated before that she has a history of unfaithfulness, but I was hoping you two would last a bit longer. Still, you had good sex with each other, and that's what you were looking for in the first place - or am I wrong?

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-14T07:17:25+02:00

get the kitty*

{obviously to early for me to make any sense ;)}

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-14T07:16:13+02:00

I'd say stop before you the kitty involved :))

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-14T01:43:31+02:00

I haven't had sex for over a month now. I didn't even get a full blowjob yesterday. Don't get me wrong, some is better than none... But ugh.

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-14T01:31:45+02:00

yeah totally only i wish i was getting as much sex as u i haven't had any man action since jan grrrr! oh well i'll live :))

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-14T01:30:02+02:00

I wouldn't mind if the rollercoaster had more loops and stuff in it... All the flat bits get a bit boring, if you know what I mean. ;)

I just read your post, and commented. Seems we have some very similar goings on going on (if that makes sense).

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-14T01:03:30+02:00

darling your life is a sexual rollercoaster how is that not fun.
i get what u mean about not splashing it about.
Ps have u seen my private post seems we have both had some odd moments recently :))

In response to:Here's what's new

2007-05-14T01:00:15+02:00

I went the entire month of April with nothing to write... Well, kinda. I could have written about the stuff in the hotel, etc. I thought things were getting serious with Valerie though, so I didn't want to splash loads of details around any more. How wrong was I? :))

It seems I'm now back to how I was before. Single and not sure how long it'll stay that way. Intent on having some fun for a while though! :D