Valerie's back in town, as I mentioned a couple of entries ago. I am still totally past caring about a relationship with her. I know that'd be a bad idea... But... Yesterday she was sending me text messages for ages asking if I was going out into town. I said I would do, and from then on she kept pestering me to see when I'd turn up. I kept putting it off because I was out with other people, but kept telling her that I'd make it eventually.
Luckily for me one of the people that I was out with, we'll call her Emily, was giving me advice on what to put in my messages. One went something like "I'm out with someone at the moment. I'll be coming out soon." which, according to Emily, is supposed to make her a bit jealous.
Valerie replied with "You're crap" and Emily would not let me reply to that message. A couple of minutes later Valerie sent along another message saying "Pleaseeee Hehe soon hammerede Hehe" which let me know just how desperate, and drunk, she was. I didn't reply to that one either, until I was almost in town. Then I asked her where she was and went and met her.
After a few minutes with her and her friends one of them came over to me and said that she thinks Valerie was showing off for me. Later on in the night she asked if Valerie and I had kissed yet. She said she was positive that we definitely would do during the night. The way Valerie was behaving I was expecting it myself. But nothing happened. We danced a lot, and there were times when we were talking and our heads were together that we just stayed like that without saying anything, but there was no kiss.
In the end Valerie had to go meet her once-ex-fiancée for a lift home. I also got a lift home, from someone else, and went to sleep, alone.
I can't help but think that the night could have gone very differently if I'd put some effort into it, but I really don't know if I want to or not.
She's cool to hang out with most of the time, and she's good in bed... She also has a fiancée again, and would not be very good for a relationship.
Perhaps I should just play it by ear. See if she's really as interested as everyone, including me, seems to think, and then make my mind up what to do from there. If anything it'll just be a bit of harmless fun... I don't think she'll last much longer with her fiancé. My guess was a month or two, and I think it'll be about right. Apparently they spend most of their time arguing at the moment. I just happen to be around being the nice understanding person.
Just hope I don't fumble the ball and run all the way into The Friend Zone! ![]()
Here are some more of her messages from last night. Tell me if you think she's as interested in me as I suspect. Some are more obvious (and coherent) than the others. They're arranged chronologically.
"I can see you skipping it due to a prior arrangement
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"Good good so come down town"
"You coming?"
"Why not now... Hurry up.! Or lose out"
"I don't no Hehe just hurry up you said you were coming hours ago..!... Typical man"
"Pleaseeee Hehe soon hammerede Hehe"
