Valerie ended up breaking up with her boyfriend last night. She's now single for the first time in a few months.
The two of us have agreed to give a relationship a try when she returns from her training some time in May... Until then Iit seems like we're going to continue with our hanging out with each other. I don't really see how it's much different from a relationship really. Not unless she has some other guy on the side or I have another girl. I haven't bothered with anyone else since this more serious stuff began with Valerie. It would just feel kinda wrong until I know the score.
Oh well... The situation's moving on. Just a couple of weeks until Valerie goes away... Then 5 weeks of sitting around getting bored. It's quite confusing being single, but knowing you're going to get with someone in a couple of months... Anything I do will probably feel like cheating, and might be seen that way by Valerie. Pfft. It's all silliness. I'll see if I can get a bit more of a concrete thing with Valerie before she goes away. Two weeks should suffice!
Charm mode: on
idontknowwhy
if it is all up for grabs i say you go for something that is purely about physical attraction and not emotional. that way you get fun but you don't feel torn. If you really like the girl though i'd stay celebate and see if she has , if she has then she is well serious about you ... if she has had one night stands then it is about fun before a relationship ... if it is with someone you know she likes then forget it it is never ment to be she will be a player!