Settling down again?!?

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Settling down again?!?

by Stubie @ 12 Mar. 2007 – 18:31:14

So, umm, yeah. It looks kinda like Valerie and I might be getting together on a more permanent sort of arrangement. This is all assuming she actually goes ahead with what she's suggested, and we still both think it's a good idea in a week or two.

I don't know if I'm happy or sad about it all to be honest... She's awesome, and she actually has some get-up-and-go about her, unlike most girls I know around here. I've enjoyed being single, and I think I could enjoy it a lot more... But there are things I've definitely missed about being with someone that were highlighted for me after spending the whole weekend with Valerie.

I suppose I'll write some more stuff here when I'm a bit more sure about what's going on.
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- Chyna_Doll
- 12 Mar. 2007 @ 21:37:08
Hope it goes well, my friend!
- - Stubie
  - 13 Mar. 2007 @ 00:16:20
  Thanks.
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- idontknowwhy
- 12 Mar. 2007 @ 22:57:14
i suppose it depends on how strong your feelings are for her. if you find yourself in a relationship and wanting to or actually cheating then maybe it's not right for you. I hope whatever you chose makes you happy xx
- - Stubie
  - 13 Mar. 2007 @ 00:20:18
  If I find that I'm even considering cheating then I'd end things straight away. Hopefully she'd do the same.
  
  She's coming over tomorrow after I'm done with work and we're going to have a big discussion about everything.
  
  It's kinda weird... I spent one weekend with her the whole time, and now I haven't seen her for a day. I miss her. o_O
  
  Blah, things were going pretty well with Lisa too... And then Denise was being a lot more friendly over the last couple of days.
  
  I keep thinking I should stay single and see what happens with all the other girls, but then I think I'd rather have only Valerie than all of the others and not her.
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- phinebooty
- 13 Mar. 2007 @ 11:22:36
if you are sure you want to be with valerie then maybe you need to ditch the others before it all hits the fan? or maybe you can stay casual with no pressure, but it sounds to me like youve made up your mind. I hope it's all owrth it and you have no regrets.xx
- - Stubie
  - 15 Mar. 2007 @ 00:59:19
  I'll ditch the others at some point... Melanie is gone already, actually. I don't really talk to her any more. She's found someone else to spend all of her time on. Thankfully!
  
  As for Lisa... She called me yesterday when Valerie was here, so I didn't answer. She won't tell me why she was calling, now, and she doesn't reply to my messages any more either... I guess she has other stuff going on for now.
  
  I've got a few weeks to enjoy her left... I'll figure out what's up and see her one day soon. I have a few reasons for her to come over, so I will see her again, soon.
  
  Valerie is almost definitely the future as far as this whole scenario goes. Just don't know how long it'll last.
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- antlady69 ^Pro
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- 14 Mar. 2007 @ 20:00:31
You feel so strongly about Valerie, it's worth giving a more permanent relationship a try. You'd regret it otherwise.

And if that means you can't have sex with other girls anymore - is that really so bad?? What is it that the other girls can give you, that Val cannot?

I know I'm writing this a bit late, after you had your discussion, so I really hope you and she are a couple now
- - Stubie
  - 15 Mar. 2007 @ 01:03:18
  I am pretty sure that Valerie will cheat on me in a relationship. She doesn't really have a good long-term relationship CV.
  
  I know this going into the relationship though. If she proves me wrong then I'll be glad. If she proves me right then I knew in advance and have nobody to blame but myself. I won't get too down over it because it's an expectation. That could cause trust issue between us, I suppose, but we'll cross that bridge if we make it that far.
  
  To be honest I'd be happy with some regular sex and someone to spend the nights with on a regular basis. If it turns into more than that then I'll have to see how much I really trust her.
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